Yeonmi Park’s experience that thinking for herself was so difficult, yet now she’s so much better with it. Freedom thrives when we thrive within an anti-fragile system. We cannot have “freedom” from our consequences as well. We must know the consequences.

College isn’t a “safety” net because it’s safe

Safety doesn’t exist in this life. Confidence in your responsibility is safety and yet to others you look like you’re winging it

The “safety” is just protection from blame

When college doesn’t work out? “Everyone else did it, everyone else told me to go..” you can spread the blame wide enough to not be put on yourself.